Will answer the questions I can in no particular order:
Desoldering tool - I use an 80w / 24v station - it seems to be marketed by many different vendors - but is usually a cream coloured device with 3 pushbuttons on the front and a handgun shaped desoldering head. Suction is good, relatively easy to remove the glass solder catcher and clean it, and comes with various tips.
https://www.amazon.com/Digital-Desolder ... B07542D82F
Socket or direct replacement - really a matter of personal choice - if you were doing all the chips - then socket them, but for one - it's a personal preference.
For removal - it's sometimes easier to actually cut the legs of the faulty ic as close to the chip body as you can, then remove each pin with a soldering iron and tweezers - using the solder sucker to remove the solder - this will reduce the time you spend heating the pcb tracks and pads and will help to avoid damage to them.
I think I have a few chips - not sure on speed - could be 120 or 150ns and fairly sure they are not Texas Instruments.